Moving Forward
Allowing
I believe that providing the correct aids to get your horse to move forward freely is also a great analogy for moving forward in life.
Webster's Dictionary defines the word "Allow" as to "neglect to restrain or prevent".
So when you ask your horse to move forward, make sure your body and your mind are also asking your horse to move forward. Notice if you are pulling back on the reins, notice if you are bracing your seat, notice if you feel nervous or anxious - bring your full awareness into the experience. Also pay attention to your leg - is it bouncing around and constantly nagging at your horse's side? Nagging and always asking will dull your horse to your aids and legs - your horse will stop paying attention and then moving forward becomes really hard work.
The same is true for moving forward in life. Allow life to happen and bring your awareness to new situations. Are you wanting "yes" but feeling "no"? Are you really saying "yes" to moving forward or are you resisting the change?
Change is the only constant in life - and moving forward is the path.
Jennifer K. Donovan
Principal
Equestrian Services, LLC - Delivering the Equestrian Experience
Equestrian Professionals, Inc.
Equestrian Management, LLC
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Re: Moving Forward
Thank-you, Jennifer, for another beautiful entry. Horses continue to prove to be such inspirational teachers.
One of my favorite quotes regarding change is by Maria Robinson: "Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending".
This quote helps to give me the courage to move forward with confidence. Although it's important to plan ahead and think through one's decisions, the quote emphasizes that regardless of the past, there is always opportunity for change and improvement. I love Robinson's positive perspective on taking charge of one's life: learn from the past and create something even more beautiful today.
I wish you and all those at Equestrian Services LLC the best of luck in your endeavors!
Sincerely,
Michelle Cook
Posted by mcook311 on November 10, 2009 at 10:56 AM
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