I believe that providing the correct aids to get your horse to move forward freely is also a great analogy for moving forward in life.

Webster's Dictionary defines the word "Allow" as to "neglect to restrain or prevent".

So when you ask your horse to move forward, make sure your body and your mind are also asking your horse to move forward. Notice if you are pulling back on the reins, notice if you are bracing your seat, notice if you feel nervous or anxious - bring your full awareness into the experience. Also pay attention to your leg - is it bouncing around and constantly nagging at your horse's side? Nagging and always asking will dull your horse to your aids and legs - your horse will stop paying attention and then moving forward becomes really hard work.

The same is true for moving forward in life. Allow life to happen and bring your awareness to new situations. Are you wanting "yes" but feeling "no"? Are you really saying "yes" to moving forward or are you resisting the change?

Change is the only constant in life - and moving forward is the path.

Jennifer K. Donovan
Principal
Equestrian Services, LLC - Delivering the Equestrian Experience
Equestrian Professionals, Inc.
Equestrian Management, LLC